8 DECEMBER 2024ELDERCARE REVIEWAlong with a diagnosis of dementia comes a gradual loss of language for individuals-- both the ability to use spoken and written words to communicate, as well as the ability to understand words others use. This loss can be extremely challenging, frustrating, and defeating for the person living with the disease that impacts more than 7 million Americans. For those of us caring for individuals living with dementia, it is crucial to help minimize some of these frustrations by assisting the person, particularly in situations in which feelings and emotions are trying to be conveyed. One of the best tools to use is active listening: be visibly and intentionally curious about what they are trying to communicate and assist them with connecting their thoughts. Repeating words and helping them name emotions can be helpful as well. Guiding their vocabulary, while honoring their feelings, is key when attempting to ease their frustrations. For example, years ago, one of my memory care residents approached me very concerned about her mother. She asked, "Have you seen my mom? Where's mom? I know she's coming home soon." Often, when someone asks about their loved one, especially a parent, they are longing Cole SmithEMOTION NAMING, NAVIGATING CHALLENGING TIMES WHEN SUPPORTING INDIVIDUALS WITH DEMENTIA By Cole Smith, Corporate Director of Dementia Services, Brightview Senior Living
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